7 Triggers Women Have Difficulty Orgasm during Sex

It cannot be denied, the satisfaction of lovemaking can be the household adhesive that makes Moms and Dads always harmonious. Unfortunately, not all women can have orgasms easily.

Citing Psychology Today, a study titled Women's Attributions Regarding Why They Have Difficulty Reaching Orgasm reported 10-40 percent of women have difficulty having orgasms. The factors are quite diverse: age, hormonal status, sexual experience, physical stimulation, general health, type of stimulation, to household conditions.

The study looked at 913 women over the age of 18, including 452 women who reported having severe problems having orgasms. It is known that 45 percent have difficulty orgasm in some or all of their sexual experiences, 25 percent have difficulty orgasming in one-third of sexual experiences, and 30 percent have never orgasmed in almost all sexual experiences in their lives.

Based on these research, let's know some of the things that most often cause women difficulty orgasming! Feeling the couple is not interested in making love

Love and desire are not only to be mentioned, but also to be shown. When a wife feels dim love and desire, then the friendly moment when making love feels less turbulent. If you feel like you're less interested in making love to you, then it never hurts to express how you feel and tell them what you want. How, husband is not a psychic who can read your heart, Moms. Good communication (yes, including communication about orgasm), can make your lovemaking moments more smoldering and easy to orgasm. Lack of stimulation during sex

Foreplay or stimulation before and during sex is something not to be missed you know, Moms and Dads. This is important to keep the desire peaking until reaching orgasm. For women, foreplay also makes her feel desirable, which makes sex even more pleasurable. Remember, touch stimulation is also still needed during sex! Feeling pain and/or irritation

When stimulation is less than optimal, then the moment of lovemaking can turn into a painful moment that makes you uncomfortable (even want this moment to end quickly)! Excruciating pain or irritation certainly makes it difficult or even impossible to reach orgasm.

If this happens to you, do not hesitate to convey it to your partner, of course, in the right way of delivery yes, Moms. The use of water-based lubrication can also be an easy solution so that sex feels more comfortable. Excessive stress and anxiety

According to this study, excessive stress and anxiety are the things that most often cause you to have difficulty orgasming. About 58 percent of respondents said they had difficulty orgasming due to excessive stress and anxiety. The exact trigger of this excess stress and anxiety is not spelled out in the study, but anything can be the trigger yes, Moms. Stress in question is not only psychic stress, because physical stress is also included, you know. Stress management is needed so that the moment of lovemaking is more fun and easy to have an orgasm. Uncomfortable with yourself

Lack of confidence (especially related to appearance and body shape) can cause excessive stress and anxiety that makes it difficult for you to orgasm. This negative self-image was reported in 28 percent of respondents, a considerable number and disturbing of your and your husband's intimate moments. To overcome this, try to love yourself, because all women are beautiful. In medicine

This one trigger is certainly out of your control, because some types of treatment and side effects may indeed make it more difficult for you to climax. If the difficulty of orgasm is already very disturbing, you can consult again with a doctor to be given the best solution for the health and warmth of your relationship in bed. Don't have time

For some couples, quickie or flash sex may feel exciting! But for other couples, the lack of time to make love makes it difficult to reach orgasm. Yes, many feel sex is an activity that should be regular, starting with foreplay and ending with a warm embrace throughout the night. The lack of time to make love can certainly make a woman anxious excessively which triggers difficult orgasm. (M&B/Tiffany Warrantyasri/SW/Photo: Freepik)

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